Action Steps To Develop Your Attitude Of
Gratitude
Ok, now that you have a feel for the importance of
expressing gratitude in your day to day outcomes, regardless of
what they are, let's explore a few ways to develop an attitude
of gratitude that will positively effect what you see manifest
in your life everyday.
By focusing on and compiling a list of the things that you
are grateful for in your life actually accomplishes a few
extremely effective things at the same time:
It allows you to bring into your conscious
awareness the good things that are happening in your life
on a day to day basis, and with repetition, will take your
focus off of what you perceive as the negative aspects of
any situation.
It's purpose is to put you more into a mindset of finding
that you really do have good, positive things happening to you
in all areas of your life, and shifts the focus off of what you
perceive to be negative.
In essence it is a conscious choice to focus on gratitude
rather than choosing what the mass majority does which is
"unconsciously" allowing their thoughts, emotions and focus to
run wild all the while believing that their a victim of
circumstance rather than a creator of circumstance.
It's no secret that life can deal what "appears" and is
often "perceived" to be a bad hand sometimes, but if you will
look hard for it, you can find the good in
any situation. Sometimes the answer isn't readily
available, but just the knowing that all things happen for
the greater good, is enough to keep you from falling into
resistance, and keep it from getting worse.
By shifting the focus off of only the negative
aspect of a situation, you are able to see more clearly
the positive things that can come out of this situation,
which in turn puts you into more of a vibrational state
that will attract the things that you desire.
While you are doing this procedure, it is
automatically rewriting the negative script that through
repetition, you have allowed to be written in your
subconscious and replacing it with positive and productive
scripting that will deliver to you, more positive and
productive outcomes.
Technique #1 : The Mental Gratitude
List
By developing the discipline to practice this technique
every day, you will find that it becomes easier and easier to
do, and the results, meaning the attraction of more to express
gratitude for, will be dramatic.
There are actually several ways that you can do gratitude
exercises. Personally I find what works best for me is to
mentally go over my list of things to be grateful for as I
meditate . The
reason this is such an effective method is because during
meditation, your brain wave activity is lowered dramatically
into an alpha state, which allows the affirmations to
penetrate deeper into the subconscious portion of your mind,
and has a quicker, deeper, and longer lasting effect with
less effort.
If your not into the meditation thing, you can also go over
a mental list as you do the things that relax you, such as
working in the garden, walking in the park, going fishing, or
whatever relaxation activities that you do.
It's not nearly as important precisely how you do your
gratitude exercises as it is that you make certain to do
them.
You'll find that doing your gratitude work consistently
delivers results more quickly, and is much more effective if
you can do it while you are in a more relaxed state of
mind.
If you are at a place where you are totally unable to quite
your mind and anxious most of the time, you may find the next
method to be more effective, initially.
Technique #2 : The Written Out Gratitude
List
This method is equally as effective and actually
accomplishes the same end result as the first technique.
Just take out a piece of paper and make a hand written list
of the things that you can think of that you are grateful for.
Think deeply about each area of your life and begin to write in
detail the good things that come to your mind as you write.
Don't fight it or strain attempting to come up with things,
just "allow" them to flow.
Depending on your particular situation, you may find that
it's hard to come up with things to be grateful for initially,
so dig deep and things will begin to flow. Make sure though
that you are finding and writing things that you are
sincerely grateful for. If the emotion isn't there,
the result won't be either.
To give an example, let's say that your working on a
relationship issue. You and your significant other have been at
odds for some time and you are feeling really hurt and angry
over the situation. Although your state of mind is telling you
how angry you are, think about the good that you saw in this
person that attracted you to them initially. Begin to write
down what comes to mind and more will follow. Write in as much
detail as you are able regarding each item on your list. If it
is hard initially, that's OK, just do the best you can. It will
become easier and easier the more you practice at it.
Utilize this technique in whatever area of your life you are
working on, regardless if it's money, health, relationships, or
all three. It is extremely powerful and with practice and
persistence you will begin to see circumstances begin to change
almost magically.
Make a commitment to yourself that you will do this at least
once per day and stick to that commitment. It doesn't have to
take a long time. Even 5 minutes is better than not at all. Put
into it the time that you can spare, but make sure you do it
every day.
You'll be pleased with the results.
There are a few quotes that come to mind with regard to
gratitude and the power that it has.
One is...
"When you are grateful fear disappears and abundance
appears" -Anthony Robbins
Another is...
When you change the way you look at things, the things
you look at change." - Wayne
Dyer
And an even more powerful one that provides VERY specific
instruction with regard to gratitude is...
"Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by
prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your
requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which
surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and
minds through Christ Jesus." -The Bible-Phil 4:6-7
NKJV
Ok...just one more and I'll stop...
"Develop an attitude of gratitude, and give thanks for
everything that happens to you, knowing that every step forward
is a step toward achieving something bigger and better than
your current situation." -Brian Tracy
The bottom line is that gratitude plays an extremely
important role in beginning to consciously and intentionally
create desired outcomes in your life...EXTREMELY
important!!
It's my hope that you'll think about this and choose
gratitude for yourself. It will make ALL the difference.
I would encourage you to develop your understanding with
regard to the importance of gratitude and how from a "deeper
perspective" it does serve to mold and shape a far more
pleasing quality of life.
The following are some personal empowerment tools that I
found personally beneficial and perhaps they will serve you as
well.
Powerful Tools For
Developing An Awareness Of The Power Of
Gratitude
Although we try to cover as much as possible in developing
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Not only does Wealth Beyond Reason provide an in depth
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The Wealth Beyond Reason program will make it very
clear why you may currently be experiencing those things which
you would rather NOT be experiencing and assist you to begin
experiencing MUCH more to express gratitude for.
In addition Wealth Beyond Reason provides an online
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